Swallow your pride

You don't like to admit your wrong doings. You don't like to know you're wrong. So you don't like to rethink the wrong doings. But the less you think about, the less you improve self. Sometimes we are too proud. We don't know what to do when things go bad. Hard lessons. It's usually a hard lesson to face wrong doings. Some people would say forget the wrong doings and start fresh. But history repeats itself. If the cause is not fixed then the wrong doing will come back to your life again. Most of people want to become better persons. No easy way. I am just like others. I don't like to say I am wrong. I tend to blame on others when possible. But I notice that history comes back. We don't want to regret. A fresh start sounds cool but does little to prevent you from regretting. Some steps can avoid this I learned. The first step is to swallow your pride. The second step is to fix the wrong doings you caused instead of escaping (to think to have a fresh start). Fixing things and making them work make more sense. You need a will, a strong one. Also, remember what you did wrong and what you learned from wrongs. No one likes to admit "I am wrong". We tend to be slacking on fixing wrongs caused by us or bailing out on the way of fixing things. It's not pleasing to face or rethink the wrongs. Forgetting your pride and reversing wrong doings are such noble actions. They really are. No kidding